I bet you cant guess my asian enthinicty

So you like sushi?
You like chinese food?
hey when is the lao festival?
Do you listen to kpop
Was your mom or dad white?

Do you notice something about this!

These were questions that was asked to me growing up. People trying to guess my ethnicity like its a game show asking me the dumbest questions.

When I say I'm full Filipino, its like a southwest airline commercial; there reaction to my answer is PRICELESS.

Well if I really think hard about my ethnicity I cant blame them if they don't think I'm full Filipino because if you really look at Filipinos they are really brown compared to me, I'm really light and bright haha.

funny part is they have the nerves to ask me; are you sure? or NO WAY!

Like I don't know my own race and they know more. LOL

But it humors me time to time because they really gave up like 5 minutes of their life trying to get to know me  even if their questions were really dumb. Instead of asking 20 questions, it would save more time if you just ask me one straight forward question.  But I give them an A for effort. 

I guess maybe what they think is; it be awkward to ask a straight forward question like that because in their mind they do not want to give them that intention that you are a creeper or a stalker.

         

Asians and there cars!

When people think of Asians, what is one of there thoughts in there mind?

CARS!!

I hear it all the time. Oh your Asian must mean you have a nice car with this modification and that cosmetic work on it huh.

Even if your Asian who likes cars because its a hobby or a passion of yours they still pin the idea of liking cars because your Asian.

I love cars not because I'm Asian, its because my whole is into it. I grew up in a family that loves cars and loves to work on it. Yea we modify it for the looks and speed with the motivation of the Japanese culture. But being Asian has nothing to do with it.

I know many people who are not Asian and loves cars and works on their cars like how I work on mine.





















So Please don't say oh he has a nice car just because he Asian. because it is starting to get annoying and honestly I'm tired trying to defend myself with the same argument of these stereotype to people who I'm guessing are just HATERS because their ride is not like mine.

where NOT this!!

Its more like this!

United like its an own NATION.

Oh he is a Nice Guy!

   The words no man wants to hear.

Being "Nice Guy" isn't really the best description a guy wants to hear from a girl. especially if the girl who said is the one you like.

When guy's hear the word nice guy the whole thought of wanting to be with that person just goes down the drain.

If you don't believe me.... Picture this

Girl: ohhh I know Jason he is such a hottie!!!

vs

Girl: ohhh Jason yeah I know him he such a nice guy......

see the difference?

the "Nice Guy" is just portrayed as a person who isnt that important compared to a person who is described as a hottie. 

I had experience with being the "Nice Guy" in one point of my life and honestly it totally sucked so bad.

Here is how the story went...

I was in high school at that time and I really liked this girl. She was everything I wanted, the brains, the style, and the looks. You can say she was the full package. To get her attention I do so many things for her such as walk her to class, make her laugh when she down, be the one to talk to her when she needs someone to talk to.

I wanted to step my game up and just tell her how i feel but like any other typical high school kid I was to shy and afraid so I had to get help from her Best friend.

So i asked her best friend to ask her what she thought of me and if she ever had a thought of like dating me someday.

Next day, she came up to me and said " so I asked her what she thought of you" and i said " what did she say?" nervously... She said" ohh he is a really nice guy but I cant see him more that just a friend". 

Nice guy, its not just two ordinary words, they are words that leaves a guy just hoping.